Discover Your Purpose: Uncover the Power of Knowing Your Why
What Is Your Why?
"Loneliness in business is not a weakness; it's the canvas on which entrepreneurs paint the masterpiece of their dreams, driven by an unwavering commitment to success."
-Rokon Alam, CPA, MBA
Introduction:
Your "why" is the reason behind everything you do. It’s the deeper purpose that motivates you to get out of bed in the morning and pushes you to keep going when things get tough. Your why gives meaning to your actions, choices, and goals. It’s more than just wanting success or happiness—it’s understanding what truly drives you and gives your life direction.
Benefits of Knowing Your Why
When you know your why, life feels more focused and fulfilling. Here are some of the benefits:
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Clarity: You gain a clearer understanding of what matters most to you, helping you make better decisions.
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Motivation: Even when things get hard, knowing your why gives you the strength to keep going.
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Direction: It provides a sense of purpose, helping you stay on track with your goals and dreams.
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Confidence: You feel more confident when you’re living in alignment with your true purpose, knowing you’re doing what’s right for you.
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Inspiration: When you live with purpose, you inspire others to do the same.
Step-by-Step Guide to
Find Your Why
Reflect on What You Love to Do
Action
Think about the activities, hobbies, or work that make you feel alive. What do you enjoy doing even when no one is watching? What are you passionate about?
Example
If you love helping others, maybe your why is to make a positive impact in people’s lives.
Look at Your Strengths
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Consider the skills and talents that come naturally to you. What do people often compliment you on? What are you really good at?
Example
If you are a great problem-solver, your why might be centered around using your skills to solve meaningful challenges.
Think About Times You Felt Fulfilled
Action
Reflect on moments in your life when you felt truly fulfilled or proud. What were you doing? Who were you with? What made that moment so special?
Example
If helping a friend through a difficult time gave you deep satisfaction, your why might be rooted in supporting others emotionally.
Ask Yourself "What Makes Me Feel Alive?"
Action
Pay attention to moments when you feel completely in the flow—where time seems to fly by because you’re so engaged. What gives you energy?
Example
If you lose track of time while creating art, your why might involve creativity and self-expression.
Examine the Challenges You've Overcome
Action
Often, our struggles shape our purpose. Think about tough experiences you've gone through. How have these challenges made you stronger, and how can they influence your why?
Example
If overcoming a difficult childhood made you passionate about helping others overcome their own obstacles, that could be your why.
Consider the Legacy You Want to Leave
Action
Ask yourself, "What do I want to be remembered for?" Think about the impact you want to make on the world or in the lives of others.
Example
If you want to be remembered for being a caring leader, your why could involve guiding others toward their own success.
Write Down Your Why
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Once you have done some reflection, write down your why. It does not have to be perfect—just something that feels true to you.
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“My why is to inspire others to believe in themselves and pursue their dreams.”
Test Your Why
Action
Start living according to your why and see how it feels. Does it give you more energy? Do your decisions feel more aligned with your purpose?
Example
If your why is to help others, find small ways to do that in your daily life and see how it makes you feel.
Refine It Over Time
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Your why may evolve as you grow, so revisit it from time to time. Make adjustments as needed to ensure it still resonates with who you are.
Example
You may realize that your why has expanded to include new passions or priorities as you change and grow.